IDK
1.) Take the trash out - several times a day
2.) Take the trash for 7 people to the curb- once a week
3.) Wash the dishes - several times a day
4.) Cook for Bella - a couple of times a day
5.) Give Bella a shower - every other day
6.) Dress Bella - several times a day
7.) Grocery shop - twice a week
8.) Give Bella medicine - every night
9.) Cook for RGK - once a day
10.) Give 45 min. long back massages- I've given over 1000, literally...(11 years)
11.) Do the laundry - at least once a week
12.) Go shopping for the house - once or twice a week. Up to 5 stores.
13.) Take Bella to school - every day she goes
14.) Do the yard - as needed for many hours
15.) Help Bella toilet - several times a day
16.) Help Bella with brushing her teeth - once a day
17.) Go to Bellas psyche appt. - once a month
18.) Clean up after Bella_ find perpetually lost phone - several times a day
19.) Take stuff to storage - I've filled a 25x10, and a 10x10
20.) Clean the cats litter - several times a week
21.) Feed the cat - several times a day
22.) Clean the hamster cage - every few weeks
23.)Clean the refrigerator - every few months
24.) Major projects like moving trash built up in the backyard for half a day, cleaning the garage, putting together new furniture
25.) Work on Bella's homework - several times a week
Morning View:
12pm "Joel, get up, get Bella's LUNCH!"
12- 12:15 serve a four course meal
1PM - 2 PM Argue over being able to use ipad while in virtual zoom classroom
3pm "Joel, clean the kitty litter, feed the cat, give Bella her medicine, do the dishes, take out the trash, and get Bella dressed to go to the store."
3:01 "Daddy take me to go poop!"
3:30 Listen to afternoon itinerary
3:45 Leave for Walmart Grocery, WalMart Dept. Store, Target, Fast food run
4:00 - 6:30 pm - shop
7pm - arrive home, unpack, "Daddy take me to go pee!"
7:30 pm - empty trash, recycling, feed cat, hang up laundry
8pm "get the salt and pepper" "get me ice water" "get my glasses case" "hand me my vitamins" "get dry food for the cat, and do the dishes before you make my aging mother do them." "Empty the bathroom trash" "break down the boxes delivered and take them out" "clean the cats water bowls" "when I'm done earning money, since I'm the only one with a job supporting this family, give me a 45 minute massage!"
8:15 "make Bella Mac n cheese on the stove, a hot dog in the air fryer, and cut her up some watermelon..."
8:30pm "can you wash the bedclothes, and linens, and scrub Bellas shoe soles?"
8:45pm "Give Bella a shower and give me her detangler and brush from the bathroom!"
9:15 pm " Dress Bella and change the laundry loads."
9:30 pm " Brush Bella's teeth and mouthwash, give her Melatonin and tuck her in."
10pm " It's so messed up I have to do everything, micro manage you and Bella..."
11pm - 3am ozenoz media
3am - 4am massage
Who knows when zzzz....
Up at 12pm "Get up Joel, make Bella lunch!"
Fubar reality. Ugh.
(Etc... A LOT OF ETC...)
Benefits:
Rent free
With my girls
Included in outings/vacations
San Diego Zoo and Safari Park
Birch Aquarium
Disneyland
Knotts Berry Farm
Museums
Yosemite
Movies
Padres Games
Air BnB w/Pools "staycations"
World Mark Timeshares
+Others...
The problem really lies in my ability to make money. Not that I can't, I just haven't.
I'm 45, and I have no money, let alone savings for my daughters college, or later, retirement.
It's putting a strain on things, that may not end all that good if I can't come up.
Wish me luck.
Fast Food:
1.) McD's
5500 Grossmont Center Dr, La Mesa, CA 91942
2.) McD's
8045 Fletcher Pkwy, La Mesa, CA 91942
3.) McD's
7164 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
4.) McD's
3781 Avocado Blvd, La Mesa, CA 91941
5.) Jacks
7979 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
6.) Jacks
5141 Jackson Dr, La Mesa, CA 91941
7.) Jacks
10255 Campo Rd, Spring Valley, CA 91978
8.) Jacks
1047 Sweetwater Rd, Spring Valley, CA 91977
9.) Jacks
7015 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
10.) Jacks
6987 University Ave, La Mesa, CA 91941
11.) Jacks
6110 Lake Murray Blvd, La Mesa, CA 91942
12.) Taco Bell
7232 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
13.) BK
6960 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
14.) BK
7060 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
15.) KFC
7012 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
16.) KFC
8330 Paradise Valley Rd, Spring Valley, CA 91977
17.) El Pollo Loco
4990 Baltimore Dr, La Mesa, CA 91942
18.) El Pollo Loco
7087 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
19.) Wendy's
8749 Campo Rd, La Mesa, CA 91941
20.) Panda
8011 University Ave, La Mesa, CA 91941
21.) Panda
5500 Grossmont Center Dr, La Mesa, CA 91942
22.) Popeyes
3065 Lemon Grove Ave, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
23.) Subway
9805 Campo Rd Suite 155, Spring Valley, CA 91977
24.) Subway
8142 La Mesa Blvd, La Mesa, CA 91942
25.) Subway
7582 Broadway Suite A, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
26 ) Subway
7404 University Ave, La Mesa, CA 91941
27.) Subway
7900 El Cajon Blvd Suite L, La Mesa, CA 91941
28.) Subway
6971 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
29.) Subway
3739 Avocado Blvd Suite 11B, La Mesa, CA 91941
30.) Subway
689 Sweetwater Rd, Spring Valley, CA 91977
31.) Rallys
7393 El Cajon Blvd, La Mesa, CA 91942
32.) Rallys
8667 Jamacha Rd, Spring Valley, CA 91977
33.) Carls Jr.
3722 Kenora Dr, Spring Valley, CA 91977
34.) Carls Jr.
7162 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
35.) Carls Jr.
8110 Parkway Dr, La Mesa, CA 91942
36.) In n Out
7160 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
37.) Starbucks
9809 Campo Rd, Spring Valley, CA 91977
38.) Starbucks
4209 Spring St, La Mesa, CA 91941
39.) Starbucks
8626 Jamacha Blvd, Spring Valley, CA 91977
40.) Starbucks
543 Sweetwater Rd, Spring Valley, CA 91977
41.) Starbucks
937 Sweetwater Rd, Spring Valley, CA 91977
42.) Starbucks
3777 Avocado Blvd, La Mesa, CA 91941
43.) Jamba Juice
5500 Grossmont Center Dr, La Mesa, CA 91942
44.) Rubios
5500 Grossmont Center Dr Suite D-22, La Mesa, CA 91942
45.) Panera
5500 Grossmont Center Dr #145, La Mesa, CA 91942
46.) Del Taco
7060 Broadway, Lemon Grove, CA 91945
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